Dating 101 for teenagers
By Cathy Green-Miner When it comes to boys and dating, it can be pretty baffling, especially since the teen dating scene has changed since your parents were your age.Your parents can help you get over the hurdle of boys, but that may be a hard task. You may have the strongest feelings of your life, which is great when things are good. Here are six dating tips to help you keep your head during this exciting time.Dating Tip 1: Take Your Time Some teens date, some don’t.In the fading twilight, the headlights of an approaching car reminded Bill to reach for the dashboard and turn on his lights.As the horde of rush-hour cars streamed by, Bill reminisced about the teenage daughter he had just picked up from band practice.“Girls need to feel good about themselves before they start to date,” says Charles Wibbelsman, MD, chief of adolescent medicine at Kaiser Permanente in San Francisco.His advice: only date if you know yourself and know you want to date.
For for potential teen allies, like parents, teachers, and afterschool program staff, La Casa also provides Domestic Violence 101 for Teens presentations highlighting the particular dynamics of abuse often present in youth and teen relationships.Our Domestic Violence 101 for Teens presentations empower adolescents to create healthy relationships—and to seek support when needed—through a developmentally appropriate introduction to teen dating violence and domestic violence.These presentations help teens recognize potentially abusive relationships, better understand what creates a healthy relationship, and gain an understanding of how the cycle of violence may apply to their lives.Maybe the love of your life has turned mean and selfish. “If a boyfriend doesn’t give you what you need, walk away,” says Danielle Greaves, MSW, who works with girls at The Guidance Center in Cambridge, Mass.She tells girls all the time, “It hurts now, but you can get through this.” Dating Tip 4: Talk About Facebook Before You Talk on Facebook Social media puts the ups and downs of dating out there for everyone to see.